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Know that right now there are people praying for you and your family. I will continue to pray daily for your situation. I hope that you can feel the calming warmth of those prayers. God Bless.

I, along with others I'm sure, am praying for you. Find Jesus Christ and asked for his guidance through it all because he's aware of what your going through. When Jesus kicked my feet out from underneath me, I had nowhere to look but up. The pain you are feeling was a thousand times fold when Jesus died on the cross to save me and you brother. Praying for you my friend that you find peace and comfort from the pain and direction and solutions to the financial issues. Know that zero money is worth losing you to your wife and daughter. Thanks for updating us and look forward to your insight on this recruiting season and football season. Godspeed my friend and War Eagle!!!

One never truly knows the burdens that a brother may be carrying, one can only hope that he has ask his lord Jesus Christ to help him carry that load. A great book to read in times like these is the Book of Job, he faced troubles that none of if could likely bear. It touches my heart to know that we have people from all walks of life and from different backgrounds and philosophies that truly doesn't know you, yet they care so much about you to worry about you and offer to help you carry the load. Bankruptcy is a much better alternative for your financial issues, and it happens to the best of us. Lawyers will help you keep your belongings, and in cases like yours it's nothing to be ashamed of. Hang in there and keep your head up, and as coach chizik would say "watch out for those imposters".

I was in a similar situation finalncially after divorce, the company I worked for for 16 years went under and when i didn't think it could get worse, It did. I took a long hard look and reevaluated my life and what is important. Friends and Family can get you through anything when all fight together. I sold anything I could get a dollar for from watchees to coins to aluminum cans.turned off cable tv, cell phones, regular phones and lived with off the cheapest of everything. I got through it all and turned my life around, have a great job working for a rising company, Got my Kids, a new wife and life is good. Giving up is not an option, Having you around is better for your family is worth more than any life insurance policy. I lost my father in a car acceident when I was 19. I told him I loved him and got a big old bear hug every time we said goodbye. I still think of him and wish he was here for evey milestone in my life, the birth of each of my kids. Don't give up for them.

VH, really appreciate you sharing your struggles with us. I don't claim to know the pain and suffering you are going thru but I am very relieved to know you are still with us. I do know the concern for your life was sincerly displayed by the AU brothers and sisters. I also know that even though we don't really know each other I was deeply concerned for you and anxiously awaited some type of hope that some of us had made a difference in the outcome. From reading thru your response I am not sure you are happy that your AU family reached out. I assure you your AU family is happy they reached out but just think how much better your wife and daughter are to still have you. I am sure that they need you much more than any insurance policy. Money is great but love brings true happiness. Hang in there brother.

Been there man. if you ever need to talk, send me a message and we will hook up.

Auburn Brother, remember that nothing happens by chance. The days of your life as well as the number of hairs on your head, (mine is a short, short count btw), are numbered. With each there is a specific purpose. We care and intervened because we were doing Gods work.. being his hands and feet. You have work yet to do before you can rest and be with your Lord.

Nobody can say what it is... but that you're still here tells me all that I have to know. You face a difficult and uncertain future. But I can tell you this... you do not face it alone. Draw strength from faith but also draw strength from those who are honored to walk with you when you are in need. At points in each of our lives we are taken low by what life brings. I believe actually more than you can take.....alone. But it's because God wants you to understand that you can get through anything if you put your faith in him and allow him to work in your life. That work is what each of us does in our daily lives.

I'm sorry for your pain....but I'm glad you're still with us. Remember... stay positive... and know your life's work isn't yet complete.

Imagine your wife finding you dead that morning. That would be a nightmare she would have to relive everyday for the rest of her life. It would be so unfair to put her through that. Seeing a dead body is not something you ever get over. Especially when it is the person you have shared your life with. Suicide is never the answer and it isn't God's plan for you. Please do not trade the trappings of this very short life for eternity. God is the only one who should decide life and death. God wants to hold you through this, but you have to let Him! I am praying for you and your family.